Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed – BDSM blog by Meitar Moscovitz (AKA, maymay). His thoughtful, intelligent writing about things I had previously only vaguely fantasized about made me realize BDSM was about more than sex. There’s philosophy there, too. Maymay also produces (produced?) a podcast called Kink on Tap. His sixth episode on Teasing and Denial was revelatory.

I have to be perfectly blunt and say I laughed out loud seeing my real name next to my pseudonym. That’s a little bit strange and it’s the first time I’ve ever seen that particular string of words published somewhere other than my own homepage, but I already knew it’s not hard to link my two identities. It began when I used my real name as the attribution for the creation of ConversioVirium.org.

Also, thanks for the incredibly kind words on my writing. Indeed, BDSM—and all forms of sex—are not to be dismissed as primitive. Sex is part of humanity, and therefore deserves a lot of respect from all its angles.

Kink On Tap is a project I’d like to see get off the ground again. I’ve been trying to do just that but with all my various other projects, it’s a little bit tough to find the time. I’m always happy to get some contributions to any one of them.

I’m glad you are enjoying my blog either way.

Ferns