Regarding the method with which you have your boy “clean up” after he comes, I have to say I find that super hot. Not so much the licking up of the come (which, really, all by itself is hot), but the idea that he knows each and every time he shoots he’s going to have to do something that, once he’s shot, he probably really doesn’t want to do. It sets up a delicious dilemma where he badly wants to come but might just as badly not want to deal with the aftermath. That’s exactly the kind of thing I’m talking about in this post. You get to come and bask and glow and all that while he has to perform a very subservient act immediately afterward that removes the basking, glowing, etc., from his menu.

I probably should read more about Tantric sex. I notice a marked increase in my ability and need to create here when I’m deep in denial. The hard part is to use that energy in a way not focused on sex.

What I wanted to say was Yes, you should talk to your Belle and let her know what’s going on. Giving feedback and developing the relationship is not “topping from the bottom” as some criticise.

I let my sub cum occasionally. Usually he is ordered to cum on my body and then lick it all off, or he has to lick the dildo if I’ve been pleasing myself. Now we’re going to have a whole long conversation about the whole thing. Thanks.

Pass the popcorn, wouldya?

[Audience member suddenly stops, mid-gouge in popcorn bucket, and asks partner....]

Wha…wow..waity there. Who’s this new shiny character? Did I miss this addition? Whatideesay? What the..?

[People in the row ahead now turn, stare and loudly Shh]