Comments on: Ramifications

By: Real life « Denying Thumper

Real life « Denying Thumper — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 18:43:27 +0000

[...] gasmaskpipe (there has got to be a story behind that one) left the following comment to my post Ramifications: Erm, sorry, but the bit where you say “but no orgasmic participation!? For nearly a week? Man. [...]

By: thumper

thumper — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 12:11:56 +0000

Balderdash.

What a wonderful word.

By: devastatingyet

devastatingyet — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 04:40:29 +0000

you don’t really appreciate just how lucky you are to have a woman who is not only controlling your sexual activity, but also modifying it in a way most of us only dream about

Balderdash. If Thumper is lucky (and he is), so is Belle (assuming she is into this, which seems to be the case). Having a good sex life together is a two-sided thing. And not communicating about how you feel is a ticket to losing that mutual satisfaction, especially with something as complicated as d/s.

By: thumper

thumper — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 03:53:15 +0000

What the chef said.

I guess I do sound a bit put off by the whole thing and in fact I am. I think the punishment greatly exceeds the crime in this case. However, more than anything else, I’m just glad she’s doing it. Harsh or not, it’s better than the alternative (which is she does nothing and really doesn’t care one way or the other).

I’ll suck it up and watch her do herself until Monday while I get zilch and, in fact, will be very happy about. Frustrated, envious, desperate…but happy. And she knows it.

By: pastrychef

pastrychef — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 03:13:13 +0000

You seem to have missed the last line of the post. Thumper knows he’s a very lucky bunny.

By: gasmaskpipe

gasmaskpipe — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 23:44:54 +0000

Erm, sorry, but the bit where you say “but no orgasmic participation!? For nearly a week? Man. It’s not like I killed a guy. That’s harsh”
left me feeling that you don’t really appreciate just how lucky you are to have a woman who is not only controlling your sexual activity, but also modifying it in a way most of us only dream about. Stop moaning and start appreciating what you have. I’m sorry if this message seems harsh, but you need telling!