Comments on: Floating in the void

By: mykeyman1

mykeyman1 — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 09:51:29 +0000

There seems to be a lot of it about at the moment

By: Ferns

Ferns — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 07:59:32 +0000

I can’t comment from your side, but certainly I keep an eye on my boy when he is in chastity (sans device) and he does ebb and flow, as do I.

He is very much emotion-driven, and I get the impression that you are too. If he is flat, and I am not, I can easily pull him out of it. But when we are both feeling flat (and it is usually due to ‘life stuff’), I don’t issue a ‘get out of chastity free’ card, but the nature of it is indeed very different. He loses any charge from it, and it is exactly as you describe – it just ‘is’ (the sky is blue, the grass is green, I’m in chastity).

For me, I just acknowledge that he is still in chastity in various ways so that he knows I have it in mind, and I am sweet to him emotionally, even if I don’t feel like playing with him in any real way. When the ‘life’ stuff that is causing the flatness passes, we get back to normal.

I don’t think it’s really any different from phases of sexual energy (or lack of same) in any long term relationship.

Ferns

By: acaptivatedman

acaptivatedman — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 20:10:56 +0000

I’ve been feeling much the same recently and just emerged today for reasons I think I’ll babble about tomorrow.

Keep your pecker up Thumper…. erm, well, you know what I mean.

By: Billus

Billus — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 00:53:53 +0000

It could be just a phase, and it will wear off, like depression or being happy or sad or anything else. Belle will say or do something that will start your motor again, and it’ll be like you never left it. It may be the beginning of being comfortable with not having an orgasm every day or two (or whatever). A strange feeling, but you should expect days where you are more aroused than others. This may be the real you that’s exposed when you remove the mask of cumming all the time.