Comments on: New rule

By: RogueBambi

RogueBambi — Mon, 19 Apr 2010 09:24:20 +0000

I really like the way you describe your feelings. When you put your head on her stomach, I was on the verge of tears. I guess everything that turns me on also puts me in a very emotional mood. Beautiful thing, submission.

By: ranat

ranat — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 15:09:13 +0000

This dynamic is way, way hot.

By: mykey

mykey — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 08:03:56 +0000

Yeah, I can understand that. She knows that without her initiating it happens less often, and she probably feels that a bit more would be better all round. Of course there is always what others have commented on also, that she feels more desired.

Sandy loves how I perk up and look, or jump up and grab her for a hug if she so much as flounces past momentarily.

By: susan's pet

susan's pet — Fri, 04 Dec 2009 22:33:14 +0000

Thumpy,

I just want to remind you that your anniversary of your PA piercing is coming up. I am not saying what you should do, but, you know, giving thanks where thanks are due would be all right.

By: susan's pet

susan's pet — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 00:14:24 +0000

You are doing great. She obviously has you figured out and controlled. I can’t add much to what the above comments already covered, so I take another angle that you brought up. Women are famous for expecting their men to read their mind, but only when it suits them. For example, she would say, “Well, you should have known …”

Well, dang, I never know. Even when she tells me things I end up misunderstanding and misinterpreting it. Needless to say, I am often in trouble because of that. I wonder how it is between lesbian lovers. Do they read each other’s thoughts?

By: lttlbtch72

lttlbtch72 — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 18:35:43 +0000

Great post. This has been Mistress’ complaint of me ever since W/we met. It really sounds like a good concrete plan to go by to prevent any long dry spells in which your Domme goes unsatisfied, even if She isn’t aware She hasn’t.

By: bambootoy

bambootoy — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 13:18:22 +0000

It’s so obvious that power is erotic and that (some) women get physical pleasure from their exercise of power. And power only exists when will is directed at a something/someone that can be moved (or made to ‘stay’)… I see this as the main subtext here!

By: acaptivatedman

acaptivatedman — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 09:11:47 +0000

Hot post.

Good rule too. I might ask C if she wants to employ something like this. At the moment I tend to leave it up to her to instigate things rather than give the impression of pestering her.

By: Elle

Elle — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 02:20:10 +0000

I face a bit of a similar dilemma: I love to feel wanted by Boy Toy. For this reason, I would never make up a rule that he’s not allowed to initiate. Like Mineforever says, sometimes a girl wants to be pursued!

The whole attraction of this sort of activities with Boy Toy, for me, actually is that it leaves him horny and desperately wanting me. I love to see that. Unfortunately, he’s not as much of a horny bunny as you are

By: Her knight

Her knight — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 01:21:39 +0000

Dude, some of us are locked up out here – yer makin’ life difficult…
You’re on a roll with your writing. Since i’m in kind of a lull/busy serving, it’s great knowing i can come visit. Great post!

By: Mineforever

Mineforever — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 01:09:08 +0000

I love this post. The love between you and Belle…well, that’s the point, isn’t it? I like the new rule too. It’s true-sometimes a girl wants to be pursued!