Elle, over on Kink Unleashed, has the other side of the fence’s perspective on the control thing.
I’d say it’s about control. Mind games. Having the other at your mercy and wondering at what you’ll do next. It’s the satisfaction of seeing your partner obey your orders, knowing that you have that power over them…
Ouhh I’m being quoted! Now I feel all special and stuf… Thanks, Thumper 😀
*stuff*
See, I’m so special, I can’t even type 😉
Didn’t mean to get you all flustered! 🙂