I have kind of a well-known thing for underwear. I like ’em colorful and skimpy and even sometimes sheer and see-through. So I guess it shouldn’t be a surprise I also have a thing for lacy stuff. But surprised I am.
This is one of those brain twisting sexual self-discoveries. At least I assume it’s sexual. See, I squick out over sissies. Hard. And the idea of wearing women’s clothing and makeup and stuff does nothing for me. But I just discovered that underwear designed for men using materials and cuts typically used in women’s underwear is…OK. More than OK. Like, distractingly hot. Like, I couldn’t fall asleep last night, it was so hot.
The thing I struggle with right now is that this clothing, which I think of as men’s because it’s got pouches in the crotch, is shown on fucking hot obviously male models, etc., is sold on a site for cross-dressers. And…I’m like…gah! And not the good “gah.” I mean, of course. The underwear looks like panties so why shouldn’t they call them that? And really, isn’t that part of why I like them? I have a black sheer thong I occasionally wear (like today, duh) and if someone were doing our laundry I’m quite sure they’d put it in Belle’s drawer by default. What man would wear such things? It’s a very naughty feeling knowing I’m wearing outrageous underwear over my locked steel chastity device (even the fucking device falls into this secret naughtiness category, if I think about it). Having underwear (panties) that are all lacy and see-through or with a frilly fringe or a ruffled bottom is just…fucking sexy as holy hellfire.
So I bought some. Three pair. (With my allowance, not Belle’s money.) And I’m like…what the fuck?
I have limits. Some of their offerings I am definitely not interested in (but, you know, if it works for you, go for it). Others are…intriguing. Weirdly and oddly. But there it is.
So I don’t know what this means. I don’t know what this makes me (or that it even matters). I don’t know how Belle will react (I hope well). But I do know I want my frilly panties to get here ASAP. That, I know for sure.
*chuckle*
Hum well I kinda like this idea. But already do it and don’t mind the frilly sex filled satin pantie underwear.
I seem to be more drawn towards lace rather than satin. But I’m willing to experiment.
I like the lace look, just hate falling out. I have come to terms with that. Kinda want to do the lace again. Just not practical to activities I do daily.
Guess I’ll have to learn that for myself!
Hi Thumper,
I have been wearing woman’s nylon panties for years now and think nothing of buying more at Walmart. The sales ladies could care less as long as I remember my credit card(~:)
I have found that full cut panties work best as I hate to have my scrotum fall out, OUCH!!!
I am a 75 year old male. also I have a pair of female shorts I am quite fond of- the ones with the shallow pockets and short zipper – I wear ladies jeans in winter time.. I have my grubby work outfits for mowing the lawn & painting but keep my women’s jeans clean for shopping and picnics. So wear what you want and enjoy- Weber in Maryland
I have found that full cut panties work best as I hate to have my scrotum fall out, OUCH!!!
Another reason wearing something made for a man is a good thing!
I’m glad it all works for you, Weber, I’m just not into wearing women’s clothing.
I have a number of those from xdress, which Bear likes seeing on me. What does that make me? Comfortable being male and sexy and damn the idea of gendered clothing anyway, I think. I just got myself two skirts from goodwill. I’ll see how those look. I intend to wear them as a man, very much so.
I have no trouble with people crossdressing, it’s just not me. And I like sexy, lacy underwear for men. And I can see myself liking skirts, probably in a more rugged, ankle or knee length style. I wear a kilt, why not a skirt?
Sissies, well, I have my trouble with that concept, mostly because “gawd misogyny” – there’s something about the idea that dressing in a feminine way or doing household chores should be demeaning to a man that riles me up.
But this is not that. You can wear frilly panties as a man’s man, or as a cross-dresser – that’s all up to you, all in the attitude.
Well said.
Alas, it turns out Belle’s not in any way moved by the thought of me in man panties. Ah, well.
Bummer.
Yeah, well. She’s OK with me wearing the stuff, so who knows. Maybe it’ll grow on her.
For the last 12 years or so I have worn man thongs. It was by a truthful accident that I bought them, but after wearing them anyway, I have not gone back. I love wearing thongs. They are comfortable and I like they way they fit. The male thongs holds me in in the front while letting everything else be open. I have not worn any other underwear since and everyone I know knows. I’m not ashamed, and they accept it and my wife likes them on me as much as a good pair of boxers! I have learned over the years to just accept what I like and not hide it from my wife. Some things are hidden from my friends under the respect for my wife, but I keep no secrets from her.
“Some things are hidden from my friends under the respect for my wife, but I keep no secrets from her.”
Word.
I loan some of my kink books to my wife from kindle at times and I made a comment in front of our friends about how you could the other day, My wife pushed me a little telling me to tell them what kind of books I loan……So i did. “Books about male chastity” The conversations didn’t go much further on that subject, just a could one word comments “interesting” and on to the next subject. My wife didn’t seem to be bothered by them knowing; of course these are our best friends and not much is hidden from them anyway. I guess she was OK with it this time. I’m sure the subject will come back up next time we are sitting around a fire drunk one night 😉 I’ll be glad to carry the conversation further.
Other than this one time, it has not been mentioned in front of others and wont be unless she approves.
Take a body and put hot undies on it, then there’s no way that’s not hot. End of story. Also…pics or it didn’t happen!
You honestly think there’s any way I won’t post pictures?! Me?
You know, unless I look ridiculous. Then…