Belle, how much is indulging your mate, and how much is your own hot fantasy? And has the ratio changed from beginning to now?
At the beginning of all of this, roughly a year ago or so, I would say very little was my own fantasy (hot or not :)). The ratio has definitely changed now. But what I think about, and what is exciting to me, is less about the actual sex (always good with Thumpie), and mostly about the power dynamic. The submissiveness is hot. It fuels me and excites me, and makes me feel desired, appreciated, respected.