A reader sent me an email chock full o’ questions and, since I can’t get motivated to write about anything else, I thought I’d reply to them here…
Have followed your postings for some time and really enjoy them.
Thanks. I enjoyed many of them myself.
Does Belle control your appearance and grooming…hair, body hair, nails etc.? Does she ever groom you or tell you how she wants it done? How are they kept?
Not any more than any other wife. She likes me to look a certain way, but it’s not always the way I want to look and also not always appropriate for work (don’t get carried away – she like me on the scruffy side, is all). I probably would modify my appearance for her if she asked me to.
Ever get into bondage or cock and ball torture? How have you been tied or what have you had done to cock and balls?
If you’ve followed me for some time, you’ll know I’m very into CBT and bondage. I’m not always in the mood, but when I am (or when Belle pulls me into it), I like it a lot.
As far as what’s been done, Belle’s punched me in the nuts, applied Icy Hot to them, pinched and squeezed them, affixed clothespins in and around the area, and (while tied up) rested a bag of ice on the entire package. I have a fantasy of her really kicking or kneeing them, but have thus far not pushed it because I’m not sure where the line is. I have grown to really appreciate testicle pain (again, while in the right mood), but am afraid of actually damaging them.
Now that I think of it, I recall that, prior to being with Belle, my masturbatory habits included wrapping a light chain (dog leash) around my cock and balls in order to cause constriction. In what was probably a strong foreshadowing of my future kinks, I liked the sensation of binding and squeezing. At some point, I lost the chain and used other various objects such as boot laces.
Ever get tied, tortured or used by another guy? Interested in that?
No, I haven’t. Interested? Well, sure, in the same way I’m interested in any guy at this point. I’m not going to be acting on my interests since the rules of my relationship don’t allow it, but I think the dynamic differences in being topped by a guy versus a woman would be fantastic to experience. Guys have the ability to penetrate in a way that’s very obviously dominating.
Do you find yourself more bi as you are in chastity without cuming longer?
I am not any more or less queer when in chastity, but I am metric tonnes more horny. I feel as though I’m a perfect Kinsey 3 in that I’m usually equally attracted to women and men. My level of frustration doesn’t change the direction of my attractions, though it can make them much more intense.
Ever made to service other guys or women?
I’m up to anything, but Belle’s not interested in sharing, as far as I know.
Sure these seem like random questions…I appreciate your answering them.
I’d like to learn more about you.
Chastity is a huge turn on to me.