It’s a team sport

Friday night I was laying in bed flipping and flopping and trying to ignore the fact that I was working up to another sleepless night due to an overabundance of hormones. It’s been a hard few weeks since Belle and I had so much time apart, but also we’ve been in a period where she’s not been too interested in me or what I’m able to do for her (i.e., little or no sex). It was three o’clock in the morning and I was stewing.

Apparently, my tossing woke her up. When I realized this, I started to talk to her about it. I told her that the game we play is a team sport. It requires two to work. I can’t do it by myself. Also, our relationship is enhanced by the hardware that’s attached to the penis, not defined by it. If she didn’t feel interested in engaging, then we didn’t have to do it. Indeed, “setting and forgetting” has the opposite affect on me. I didn’t feel closer to her, I felt more distant. And while I wasn’t trying to guilt her out or sound angry, I could feel myself moving in that direction.

She told me to take it off. She also told me I could come. I was simultaneously sad and excited. I couldn’t really discuss the prospect of having an orgasm rationally. My hand was even shaking. She unlocked the lock and I disassembled the steel and jerked off next to her. When I came, it was a relief. I could feel the wave of sleep-inducing chemicals wash out of my brain. After wiping the goo from my body, I found sleep.

The next morning, she wanted to fool around. Surprisingly, I had it in me. I offered to let her come by riding the stiff penis, but she opted for the usual fingering. She said she’s been “trained” to want it that way. Funny. We’ve both been trained. After she came, I fucked her to completion. Two orgasms in less than six hours. The decadence.

We’re not on a total break. I’m not allowed to come without her, but I’m not sure if that means there’s any limit to how often I can come as long as she’s there. Even though I’d done it twice in the past day or so, I want it again. I’d be doing it right now except she’s not home. The device will be off for at least two weeks since we leave next Saturday for our Spring vacation.

In any event, things might get a little quiet around here for a while. I’ve got some HNT queued up for Thursday, but other than that, I’m not sure what else I’ll have to talk about.

4 thoughts on “It’s a team sport

  1. It’s your blog, but speaking personally, I still want to hear what you have to say even when/if you’re taking a break from certain aspects of your dynamic.

    I figure for most of us in power exchange relationships, our dynamic ebbs and flows, just as in a long term relationship each partner’s sex drive ebbs and flows. Reading this made me think I should talk more about the ebbs than I do — like you, I often feel I have nothing to say at those times, but those are part of the story too.

  2. Jnuts and I recently hit that same spot, and he is currently unlocked. We now have that same unwritten rule that he can not cum without me. It is funny how the “game” of chastity has affected us even when he is not locked. He always asks if he can cum, even on a break. This is not something that I have said has to happen, it is something that he feels more comfortable with.

  3. I hope the break goes well for you both. I definitely note that sense of ebb and flow, and I don’t know of anybody who has figured out a bulletproof way around it.

    I first started reading because you were talking about male chastity, but at this point, I think I’d read whatever you had to say about your relationship/life. It’s been a really interesting and helpful read for both me and my wife.

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